Cultivating Empathy: How COVID-19 is Helping me Help

My hands are red and raw and I have developed unusual callused spots between my fingers. It is painful to wash my hands so frequently, yet I know it is best practice to stop the spread. I am questioning every “symptom,” every urge to wash, and every thought. I treat Obsessive – Compulsive Disorder and my empathy tank is rapidly filling.

A nod in agreement.

This past week I transitioned my clients to a telehealth practice. I now see clients who live with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder through the comfort of our computer screens. I nod in agreement when they report an increased urge to handwash and worst-case scenario thoughts. I listen, ask questions, and then offer homework that will help: a statement for this and a different behavior to practice not doing that.

Now more than ever, every door handle I touch and light I turn on comes with an accompanying urge to wash my hands too. I struggle to follow my own advice and it feels overwhelming at times.

During this time of uncertainty, I am learning a lot from my clients: how difficult it is to facilitate change in the face of fear.

Therapists are not immune to the fear and worry –  we’re all in this together.

During this time of uncertainty, I am learning a lot from my clients: how difficult it is to facilitate change in the face of fear. Our new baseline is the recommendations set forth by the government; stay home, wash your hands frequently and for 20 seconds, practice social distancing, etc., but the humanity in us all questions if we are doing enough to stay safe.

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder affects over 350,000 Ontarians.

Therapists are not immune to the fear and worry created alongside COVID-19, but we do have an advantage: experiencing this pandemic alongside our clients cultivates more empathy and understanding – a shared experience that we’re all in this together.

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